So I told you that I would blog about the gossip, well, how can I put this... since this is just something that irritates me, I've gonna leave things a little vague when it comes to names. I just gotta get it out of my system.
My fiance and I have several friends. I met a girlfriend of one of them maybe a year ago. The first time I met her was at a party, and we really didn't talk that much.
Then maybe 6 months ago she was over at our place with her boyfriend. I talked with her and we talked about girly stuff and makeup. I gave her a few tips here and there.
I've been selling makeup, and invited her to a party. While she was there I asked her how another friend of ours was doing, and she perked up and started talking about how the other friend has been supposedly working out, but she thinks she's cheating on her boyfriend, and how she's thinks she's losing weight the wrong way.... gossiping, all I wanted to know is how is our other friend doing?
In oct a friend was throwing another party and she was there, she was very drunk and yelling at her boyfriend calling him names saying he was just like his loser dead father (that she never met.) So me and a girlfriend of mine pulled her away for a moment. She went on to tell us that she loves him, but isn't sure about things, and lives with him because she knows there's a steady income. I just wanted her to stop yelling because I didn't want someone to call the cops. (Maybe trying to lend a hand and calm down the drunk at the party is considered getting to involved)
Then about 2 months ago her boyfriend started having some emotional issues. I'd heard about them through my group of friends. and said "Oh well that sucks" I do care, but I'm not close to the guy, and I don't think I belong in the situation, so I kept my nose out of it.
A few weeks later I come home from work and gossipy girlfriend is there watching tv with my niece in the living room. I was like ok? (I just wanted to relax after work, not really in the mood for company)
I'd just bought the Ali, to take a look and do some planning before I started taking it. She saw that I was reading the booklets and was telling me that I don't need to lose weight that I am fine that way that I am, etc. It's my business. So I put the booklets away, and decided to go for a walk.
She of course wanted to go with me. She started telling me all about her boyfriend and his progress. I figured maybe she just wanted to let it all out or something. Then she said something that really irritated me.
That she was kinda mad at her boyfriend's mom for not helping more because she was too tired from the cancer.( His mom has had cancer twice, and is in remission, I have great respect for her. My mom had cancer when I was a kid, and passed away from cancer 3 yrs ago)
I let her know that I would never get upset with someone or mad at them because of cancer, that's sickening.
She also told me that his mom had been on the phone with my fiance talking (he calls to check on her sometimes), and that he wanted to talk to her, and she told him how she was stressed out, so he invited her over to hang out and have dinner.
Well when the walk was over she came in the house with me, by that time my fiance had finished making dinner, so we ate.
Then she went home, and we got ready for bed.
I talked to my fiance about how my day at work was, and the things that bothered me about our walk. Then he let me know that she called him crying and asked to come over.This I found to be a bit puzzling. Then he asked me why I didn't tell him I was inviting her to stay for dinner.
I told him that I didn't and what she had said. So we decided to try to keep our distance.
Yesterday, she called me saying that her boyfriend was having more problems, and that she felt that he life was in danger, could she spend the night?
This is where I really struggled, because I am really against abuse, no matter what the situation. So I called and called my fiance, but his phone was off, (because it was dead) so I called his nieces phone to talk to him, and he wasn't too keen on the idea either, because with everything that she's said and done, or twisted (word wise) we don't feel that we can trust her. Honestly I did feel a little guilty for saying no, but 1st of all, she's lied to my fiance and I before, 2nd of all, we know that if the situation was that bad she has other friends that she's a lot closer with she could call, or could go to a shelter.
So I text her letting her know she couldn't spend the night, and she told me my fiance told her she could, that she talked to him a few mins ago. She doesn't have his nieces number, so I know she didn't call him, so I told her I talked to him and the answer is NO.
I called back my fiance, on his nieces phone, and he said he hasn't spoken with her at all....WTH?
Later we found out that she talked to a few other mutual friends, and managed to make other arrangements, but something is still really off putting about this girl, I feel like she's trying to get too close to me for the wrong reasons.
For the time being I'm trying to avoid gossipy girlfriend, and I hope the situation gets better for her boyfriend. I really don't want to confront her about this, I just want to blog, and live my life, not have to worry about people getting too involved.
TTYL,
Little Miss Sunshine
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