I think the whole stalker thing is getting out of hand... or at least a little worry some.
So the dude had been blocked so he and his wife sent me a "thinking of you" card signed bff. They told us how much they loved us and all that bs. The whole time I'm going WTF you don't know me that well.
My sweetie just keeps up the same mantra of he doesn't have that many friends, or he's just really intense. The same thing about the guy asking about me all the time, or calling to ask, it's annoying me. I think that this guy doesn't understand it. The more they bug me, the more they are ignoring the fact that I said I need to be away from everyone.
Well I deleted him a few weeks ago.
I've been making a lot of changes.
In the mean time (about two weeks ago) the other crazy chick that had been bugging me came over uninvited when we had people over. I was standing in our garage and she was like "Are you mad at me?" I told her I just need some space from people right now.
Well she got in my face asking the same question over and over. Yeah maybe it was stupid of me saying that I don't want to talk about it right now because I didn't want any drama bc we had a friend over for his birthday. She got up in my face and I told her to back up. Then she was standing in my driveway cussing me out. The saddest thing is I know that I was sober. Finally my sweetie and his friends came out and made her leave. I told her to get the F*$% out of my driveway. Don't you dare talk to me like that on my own property.
The next day someone at work, who happens to know me pretty well called me out on the fact that I have been depressed, and not been myself lately. I have been. I fight myself about food, I'm frustrated about my dad's declining health. Alzheimer's isn't easy to deal with, at least emotionally. I feel like I can;t come home and have any peace. Either it's the fact that there is always someone home. Maybe it's because I have these people I don't know very well appearing at my house, or calling, or texting, or sending cards, or emailing. Enough is enough.
Well I took a week off of work with my bosses blessing. (she's so awesome for letting me do that I think she new I was having a nervous breakdown.) I went and stayed with a friend for a few days. Relaxed, didn't worry about my phone, or my fb, what was going on at work or home, not a damn thing. I told my worry wart sister that always calls for stupid shit that she could call my sweetie, because I didn't want to be disturbed.
When I came home I remade myself. Bought some new makeup, got a massage, got my hair done, got a mani-pedi. I'm also keeping up on the hair and makeup every day.
A few days ago stalker man called my sweetie, asking how I was and why I deleted him and his wife. He told him that I deleted a lot of people. That I have been needing my space from people a lot.
Yesterday he just kinda showed up with his wife. I was about to leave with my sister to go somewhere, so I went running to her room and hid. I made my sister go see what was going on, but I guess that they stayed in their truck and my sweetie went and talked to them. He told them that I was sleeping. They asked if they could come in and see me, but he said no I needed my rest. I know that my sweetie is getting tired of this, and keeps saying this guy is intense, and that I have to get used to him. He's being creepy. Anyone that doesn't know you that well and worries too much about you being their friend, or being mad, isn't just insecure, they're immature, and possibly a little bit psycho.
Anyone else that has heard about this thinks this guys got some issues to. Not my sweetie, he doesn't think there's anything wrong here. What's it gonna take this guy breaking in and killing me in my sleep? Waiting for me outside my house. If I find him at my work, I'm gonna turn around and drive away and have security remove him. I'll call the office and have them say that I called in until he leaves or something.
I've been told that the more I avoid a stalker, the more they will be spurred on. He hasn't done anything that the cops would give a restraining order for. Obviously my sweetie doesn't think he's a threat. Even though he keeps irritating me, and I can't be left alone by anyone apparently.
I'm going to have to handle tis by being a big bitch instead. I don't think anyone wants to see this, because I've been told by my sisters that I've been a frigid bitch since birth. Wish me luck people. I'm going to ave to channel my inner biatch, this wont be pretty.
TTYL,
Little Miss Sunshine
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