So I have been super busy and haven't had the time to do anything lately, or at least anything for myself that is. Nothing at all. My dad's been in the hospital, and is now in a rehabilitation place because he has Alzheimer's, heart problems, lung problems, and blood pressure problems. Ugh what a mess. Ive been visiting him every day and on the weekends. My oldest sister stays with him all day up there. She doesn't drive so My other sister drops her off and I usually go there to pick her up at the end of the day.
My weight has stayed about the same, but I have been eating a lot of bad food lately.
Then on top of that I have yet another person that seems as though they are stalking me. My fiance and I have gone out to dinner a few times with one of his co-workers and his wife. First I added them on my facebook thinking nothing of it.
Then they started bugging me because his wife wanted to order Avon. Well I haven't been selling Avon in a while because either I haven't been feeling well, or my dad hasn't been doing that well.
Then the guy started saying that I didn't like him or must be mad at him to my fiance. I'm not mad, just have a lot on my plate right now. My fiance said that they don't have that many friends, well I'm sorry dude, I can't even see the friends that live near me or that I'm close to.
These people live about 20 miles away. Well then he emailed me on facebook saying that he hoped that everything was okay, and that he and his wife missed us and love us very much. I really thought that it was getting a little weird, because they don't know us that well.
Then he again kept saying to my fiance that he thought that I didn't like them, where have I been, why haven't I been on facebook. He told him that my dad's been sick and that I have a lot of stress right now.
I started noticing that every time I said something he would make a comment about it or something, c'mon, let me have some space.
Then yesterday morning when I was getting ready for work he showed up at our house. He said that they were working near by and thought he would see if my fiance was up. My fiance has been off on Workman's comp for almost a year, why the hell would he be up at 6am. I don't know what this guys problem is, but my fiance talked to him and let him know that it wasn't cool. We also had to explain for the 3rd time that my dad is sick and I am busy. Then he posted "hang in there my friend" or some bullshit like that on my wall, so I blocked him and his wife from looking at my wall or posting on my comments, or even seeing anything that I post.
This guy is acting like were best friends. He doesn't even know me that well. Just because you have dinner a few times doesn't mean that you know me.
I've learned now that you can't be nice to people because they latch onto you. I think the thing that these people that keep latching to me had in common is that neither of them had a lot of friends. Maybe they're just pushing to hard to have friends. You need to be invited by people, not harass them because you're lonely. It drives them away from you. I'm getting to the point that I want to lock myself in a closet somewhere so that I can be left alone, my sister can bring me food and water, just don't let anyone in the closet with me.
TTYL,
Little Miss Sunshine
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